Untuk bacaan orang dewasa dan yang dah berkahwin shj

And the boredom hit me today. Kat office ni very the silence. Now headcount 6 orang je.
Nak buat keje pun tak boleh..Bile email je, dapat balik email out from office.

I'm bored. So I write.

Been 2 years married. We are now ready for  lil junior come into our life..
Met gyne today. I was diagnosed PCOS rupanya.
At first my big concern was fibroid or cyst. Alhamdulillah..none of that exist inside me.

So td buat pap smear. She asked me to take off my panties...Aww..malunye..

"Malu la doctor.....Doctor tak malu ke tgk saya punye?" hahaha...Accidently came out frm my mouth..

Doc jawab" Taklah, hari hari saya buat, dah biasa dah"  =)

Everything ok. Alhamdulillah.. Then buat scan. Scan bwh perut tak nampak apa apa pun..., sbb bladder tak penuh.tak nampak ape pun. Then doc advise kite buat scan ikut bawah.....Aduh! Sakit lagi..sbb mase buat pap smear tu mcm sakit sikit. Tapi scan ni tak sakit pun...

Yay...i dapat tengok my own ovari...ada 3 telur and salah satunye tgh matang lagi uol...diameter 18mm. Doc ckp ni dah ok ni..Dinding rahim pun agak tebal. Kalu tebal maksudnye senang telur yg telah disenyawa tu nak lekat. Since I ni PCOS. telur yg matang tu susah nak pecah..doc advise kite pecahkan telur tu...Doc bagi jab yg bole memecahkan telur tersebut...wehuuu...canggih betul dunia sekarang.

" So mlm ni u kene tetttttttttttttt  dengan husband u ok"....kikikiki...
"Kite cube dulu dengan kaedah ni, kalau tak jadi kite gune cara lain. next month u dtg lagi"


Anyway, kalau Allah nak bagi rezeki baby, mungkin hari ni, mungkin esok, mungkin bulan depan or mungkin 5 tahun akan datang...yg penting usaha dan tawakal....

So lepas jumpe doc tu called husband...ckp ckp ckp...before hang up..he wishes me good luck..heh?...
Apa apa la husband.....

** For fertality jab tu I kene charge RM70. yg tu my company tak cover.

 

Project : Let's Read and Explore

I have a small project with my friend ‘M’. Precisely, she initiated first and we execute together. Not me and her, but also involved some of her friends and my friends as well.

A project called ‘Let’s Read and Explore’.


We managed to collect some money from our kind-hearted friends and the total sum was RM330
From the donation, we bought plenty of books at BBW sales to donate to Rumah Bakti Al Kausar located at fasa 4 tambahan Bangi.



Our purpose is that to encourage them to read English books so that they can write and speak well in English later on.  The books that we had for them were story books, exercise books, references, travel, animal books, etc etc.We really hope that they‘ll get inspired when reading those books to achieve their dreams. InshaAllah.

We’ll plan to give the books on 1st January 2013. I pray that everything will run smoothly on that day. Amin.

* There was one colleague at my office not agree with what we are doing now. She'd sceptical whether the children going to read the books or not. In my opinion, atleast this is a small effort that we can do rather than not doing anything. This is the time we encourage them to read from small. If we didn't encourage frm beginning, then your theory is correct. They forever don't like to read. Hence no contribution from her.

A book to give away

Who like reading a book?????? (raise your leg plzz..)


I don’t like to read but I force myself reading a book. So I started with Sophie Kinsella’s book. The first book I bought was “A confession of shopaholic”.
Interesting and nice plot and had witty character….plus the language also light and easy…..
Since then, I bought all of the shopaholic series. I had chemistry with her writing. Be it shopaholic series or not I can go along with her writing. I bought at carefour, coz I noticed it’s a bit cheaper than MPH.
(it was 4 years back, baca dalam train pegi keje balik keje)





Suddenly………..

Last year, (last year ke, Big Bad Wolf buat kat MAEPS tu?)……all sophie Kinsella’s book were just only at rm8….rm8 @BBW! Fainted!

Grrrr…..aku beli rm30 ko jual rm8 je…murah nye…, , peeps if you haven’t bought it, go and get it at BBW now at Mines Convention Centre.
It’s really worth every penny you spend.



Ok now,

I have one book which I’m not going to read it.
Bought it at previous BBW sale. I have no idea who is Emily Griffin, but that book was parked under ‘best seller’ item. And best seller item normally was awesome.
Plus it’s hard cover book. Double awesome.

It’s just that…… I had no chemistry or satisfaction reading ‘Love the one you’re with’
So I tried and I tried, I keep on trying to read you ‘book’….
Eventually, ‘Love the one you’re with’ is not my cup of tea….
I plan to give away this book to whoever interested. But make sure you will read ok..
So gals, kalau mahu ini buku…kasi tau haaa…The book still in good condition..
If you are within my place radius (kjg, putrajaya, bangi, ukm, serdang), I can send it by hand, but if you far away, far away, far away…I’ll post for u. =) no worries.



Membaca itu jambatan ilmu.

I still force myself membaca, though flicked 3 pages, dah ngantuk nak tido..

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Ada apa dengan Tudung Fareeda?

Al kisahnya smlm ai pergi cimb bank kat bangi nak masukkn duit thru cdm. Bole kire tiap tiap bulan la terpaksa visit cimb ni, kalu tak masukkan duit ., keluarkan duit..tu la keje nya.


Sebelah cimb ni ade kedai tudung Fareeda. Tp masa di awal kemunculan ‘Fareeda’, kedai ni mcm tak lah sehangat mcm sekarang. Sejak kebelakangan ni je la, early 2012 tiap kali pegi cimb, mesti ai nampak kedai tudung Fareeda ni penuh dengan umat. Ai punye first thought, dia buat launching kot, maybe ade artis datang so that why ramai orang datang. Next visit to cimb lagi, pun masih ramai orang, so my second thought, maybe kedai dia kecik tak bole nk tampung bilangan customer yg ramai, tu sebab ada yg tunggu di luar. Then visit lagi cimb , still noticed ramai nye orang kat Fareeda tu. So my next thought, hmmm…tak nak amik port la. Malas nk amik port dah.And smlm pegi cimb lagi, pun ramai jugak..oh kali ni ai tak bole tahan, ai tak puas hati, murah sgt ke tudung kat situ, kenapa asik orang ramai je? Kenapa? Kenapa? Kenapa? Ai pun decide nak jenguk ‘Fareeda’

Bukak pintu je orang yg kat dalam tu mcm nak tersembur keluar. Sekali ai perasan, ooo kene beratur rupenye…Bila dah masuk tu, ai dah tak bole kedepan lagi dah sbb penuh kan. Lelaki pun ada yg beratur juga. Hebat betul penangan Fareeda ni! So ada la kakak sebelah ai tu. Ai tanye dia, nape ramai ni kak? Dia jawab “ awok nok beli tudung ke? Haaa awok beli kan untuk saye bulih? Sape yang dah beli tak boleh masuk doh beli. Doh amik nombor belum” dalam hati ai oh ni kakak org kelate ni…”takde belom belom”, “ amik nombor dulu, tu kat luar tu amik nombor, amik no dulu baru bulih masuk dale ni” Ai tak sempat nk keluar amik nom, kakak ni dah tulun amikkan nom, pantas betul…I like..

“Awok belike saye tudung hok printed tu deh, nanti saye bagi duit ke awok, cashier tu cam dah muko saye dia tak kasi beli doh , awok beratur dulu jap lagi bulih masuk amik tudung.” Kat dalam tu ada mcm border / pagar, ape benda nk panggil benda, mcm airpot or bank tu? Panggil ape tu? Kat Fareeda ni pun ade jugak untuk pastikan customer ikut turn. Selepas pagar tu bukak semua pakat berebut amik tudung yg printed tu. Yang lelaki pun berebut. Tak sangka ai,lelaki pun beli tudung ok. Agak gerun tgk lelaki pun berebut.

Ai org yg kedua last dapat amik tudung chiffon printed tu. Untuk kakak yg pesan tadi. Rupenye customer yg dah beli hanya dibenarkan beli sekali jer. So ai bajet yg lelaki lelaki dok berebut tu mesti si isteri isteri suruh beli..hhihi.Bile nk bayar tu, siap mintak no giliran lagi. Hebat tak penangan tudung Fareeda ni. So tudung td ai dah pass ke tuan nye..tp ai tak nak kekuar lagi, masih nk tgk tudung2 lain. Btw tahu tak tudung yg mereka dok berebut tu harge dia berapa? RM150.00  diulangi RM150.00   ok…bukan rm15.00…sungguh I tak paham…150 tu, mahal wey…igtkan nk la sambar satu…mengenangkan RM150.00  …tak pelah…lain kali je la..



Cantik2, not bad, terpesona jugaklah dgn color2 dia. Semua tudung kat situ material dia adalah chiffon and betingkat2 (ke actualy ade name tudung which I don’t know), dan didatangkan dengan brooch sekali, kalau brooch besar mahal sikit, kalu brooch kecik murah la sikit..murah2 pun , above rm100.00 jugak! Hati ni masih tak puas hati, dengan sape ai nk bertanya ni, sekali ada sales girl Fareeda tgh susunatur tudung. “Adik tudung yg color pink hijau tu berapa?” buat2 tanye laa harge tudung berapa..hik hik hik..gaya adik tu mcm baru kerja jugak la…adik sgt..so ai pun ajak dia borak..hehe…” Dik ramai sgt orang kat sini kenapa ye? Tp harga tudung ni mahal..sanggup diorang beli..siap berebut2 lagi. “ “ kak , time sale ke or time tak sale ke mcm ni la keadaannye customer sentiasa ramai. Tudung mcm ni kan kak harge dia sebenarnye rm200 ade juge 250..sekarang dah turun harga lagi ramai orang beli. Tudung ni dah jadi fenomena dah kak.Ade sekali tu customer ramai sgt sampai terbalik benda ni” adik tu sambil tunjuk ampaian tuk display tudung. “Saya pun rase tudung ni mahal, tp kan bile dah pakai, akak akan rase sedap and nak pakai lagi tudung mcm ni, cube la kak beli” Wahh…wahh..wah…sampai mcm tu sekali. dan kebanyakan yang kakak2 yg membeli di situ semua pakai tudung chiffon tingkat2…maybe I can classify them the real fans of tudung Fareeda. Salute! Dah abes borak pjg ngn adik tu ai keluar dgn tgn kosong je pun…terus menuju cimb nk bayar hutang kredit kad yg berbaki masih byk lagi (damn you kredit kad, kalu tak dah bole sambar selai tudung Fareeda)…huhu





Tp ok la Fareeda ni. Owner dia orang Penang. Seronok i tgk golongan kite maju macam ni. Kire setaraf la dengan brand2 mcm LV , Gucci etc etc. Sbb ape, ai penah dapat email tunjuk butik LV yg dekat paris tu, mat salleh2 ni kene beratur kat luar tu,..punye la ramai yg nk membeli…Gucci yang dekat klcc pun I penah nampak, customer kene beratur dulu before nk masuk. ..what a fanatic customer. Mungkin satu hari ai nk beli la tudung Fareeda ni tp nk tunggu time adik ai kawen tahun depan. Nk beli sekarang mcm takde duit n mahal sgt I rase.. mana tahu tahun depan dia sale 70% ke kan…miahaha





Customer dah menyusut sbb time ni dah lepas aksi rebut-merebut. What a new scene to me.

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Pusing kepalaku dibuatnya

We realized the petrol price is going to increase soon and we can’t tolerate if we still using our existing car. That car dah old enough even though the performance is still good. It just that the money we spent on the petrol is not worth it. During petrol murah ok la, now petrol 97 naik harge mcm haremmm..(my fren suke buat statement mcm ni) terpakse downgrade to petrol 95. Petrol 95 pun still mahal jugak rm1.90 seliter, just imagine kalu rm10 isi bole muat botol mineral yg besar tu je. Dulu…okla tak payah cite pasal dulu. Semua tahu dulu petrol murah. Now duit keluar mcm air bila nak beli minyak…So we decided to change our car which fuel friendly car. Perhaps a small cc. Now the problem came in. I like that car, he dislike that car. I want Japan technology he wants German technology. Now hybrid technology is widely introduced in the market, so he changed his mind to opt for hybrid car. Ok, for that I agree, but he chooses the small one. I wanted a bigger one. I was just thinking maybe one day we have kids; we need a spacious car right? To accommodate baby’s stuff i.e stroller, need to emphasize that. Unfortunately for bigger we couldn’t afford at the moment. Unless we menabung dulu like 20% down payment, then I think we can afford for the monthly installment
As a typical lady, my concern to the interior and exterior design. Not even bother others specification. (Hehe typical me kan) While hubby’s concern more to safety features and engine spec. To me 2 airbags ok dah. But hubby prefer side airbag pun kene ade. When there was a dispute, I tend not to talk or response when comes to vehicle matter.
A sign of being rebellious to him. (That’s not good ok)
Local car? For 7 years I’ve been using a national car, Proton and Perodua. Local car is good. Cheaper price
Sometimes bila fikir masak masak, the value of small cc imported car actually equivalent with big cc local car. Actually local ok, but sometimes ade la suara2 sumbang ckp local car mcm tin milo,kalu accident berkecai habes..hmm…biarloh ape org nk kate, but I’m proud Malaysia ada kerete buatan sendiri. Since dah pernah pakai local car, kasi chance la i nk pakai imported car kan. Nak merasa jugak..huhu..tpi ni fening fening, tak tahu yg mana satu idaman kalbu.






Test Drive, Checked


Test Drive, Checked!


Looking forward to test drive hybrid...


Yg ni belum test drive lagi. Untungnye jual buku ni, bole pakai kete KUDA

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Self Motivation

My morning booster to keep me positive all day long.



Discard all negative inside me, stay positive and confidence. Stay away from bad people and ignore them as they are no beneficial to me. Embrace the positive and we are beautiful from inner to outside.



“BEAUTIFUL: when someone is pretty they have a good appearance,

But when someone is beautiful, they shine on the inside and out”

Quoted from FB’s friend.

Istanbul aku datang!

10 things why I subcribe Istanbul Aku datang @astro first

1. Nak tgk lisa surihani yg cute
2. Nak dgr lisa ckp hurup 'R'.... 'oghang' , 'haghis' etc etc
3. Nak tgk negara Istanbul - pemandangan yg sgt cantik hope one day i can visit there too
4. Nak tgk appearance 'Dian'. Noticed baju2 'Dian' pakai semua cntik2
5. Rasanye arahan Bernard Chauley tidak menghampakan. - mmg tidak menghampakan.
6. Boleh tgk banyak kali. - dah watched 5x pun tak boring sbb lisa surihani tu comel sgt. Kalu tgk kt cinema bayar sekali tgk pun sekali jer
7. Boleh tonton sambil baring, sambil tergolek, sambil mkn ayam goreng gantikn pop corn and privacy takde org kaco.
8. Nak tgk Beto juga
9. Nak tgk Aizad juga - ok dia tak pandai berlakon
10. 'Dian' juga blogger mcm i! Sgt comel! Xoxoxo 'D' publish!

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H1N1 datang lagi!

8.52am  : Oh my, our office jst received a phone call informing that one of our colleague has infected H1N1 virus. And it's confirmed. A bit chaos in the office now, I can heard my boss nearby me making a phone call to various parties to alert about this.

Syukur that I did not directly contact with her, so chances for me getting infected is 0.01%.


9.47am : Staff who sitting in front of her also confirmed infected H1N1

Kacang Cerdik

Baru baru  ni I makan kacang cerdik yang dibelikan oleh ibu saudara yg pulang dari Mekah mengerjakan Haji.

Tapi nyaaaaaaa....kacang cerdik tu kurang menarik. Tak lemak mungkin.

Untuk mengubat hati yang kempunan nak makan kacang cerdik, I beli dekat office ni. Ade orang jual kat office ni. Murah! sekilo RM 33, Kulit nya putih bersih,senang dibuka, isinya lemak dan rangup.

So I makan sampai lebam. Oh ya, masih ada yang tak tau kacang cerdik tu kacang ape,

Kacang cerdik adalah kacang pistachio jugeeee =)

Kalau nak, bagitau je lah..sharing is caring daaaa

Am a green goer

It's been rainy days these days.....don't blame it as Allah has plan on us.

See, Allah gave me a beautiful and a scented flower.

Below is the only flowering plants we had at the backyard.

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A sad story

Last Friday, I joined women health talk on breast and cervical cancer at my work place. Fyi, I’m aware much that this is a critical disease to women in Malaysia and that’s why attended this health talk. Plus I’m a married woman and there’s a risk I might get this illness. During the talk given by Dr Dalilah Kamaruddin from the National cancer Society Malaysia, she shared one true story of her patient to us. This patient was diagnosed with breast cancer at the aged of 25.She has 2 boys, eldest 5 years and youngest 5 months. (Disclaimer: mybe about the age not correctly accurate coz Doc also pun mcm ingt2 lupe, and that time I lupe nk take note) She managed survived at 3 times. (Take out-kimo, takeout-kimo and all that) The worst thing is that her mil did not fully understand about breast cancer. Her mil assumed that breast cancer is a contagious disease. What the mil done was tht she asked the kids do not kiss their mom and during preparing the foods, the mil put aside her foods (patient) separately from the family’s food. Takut berjangkit kononnya. Now the evil part, the mil asked the husband to divorce her. ‘Takde faedah bela biawak hidup ni’, begitulah perumpamaan nya..so evil kan..


But the good thing, the husband very very very positive….He take cares and treats of his wife so nicely. When the wife get bald, he and the kids balded their head to show their support to his wife. So sweet kan. Even the husband cooked for his wife. (I realized my tears welling, suddenly I was imagine can my husband be like that too? can he be supportive if I get breast cancer? Can he actually be by my side? Those questions make my tears dropped)

One day, the Doc came to her house make a visit. Coincidently her husband was cooking preparing the lunch. The doc noticed her husband cooking while smoking. As a conclusion, the husband quite a heavy smoker due to stress of life. So after a week, the dr gets news that she passed away. The sad story not ends here. Within the same year, the husband also passed away due to lung cancer. Kesian kan anak2 dia..Doc Dalilah pass a message to us that when passive smoker who inhale the smokes from active smoker might die fast. So in that case, the smokes in the house also contributed of her loss despite ajal maut jodoh sudah tertulis. My husband is a smoker too. I firmly ask him don’t ever smoke in front of me, and if wants to smoke, don’t let the smokes gets inside the house. Fyi, the smokes itself contained many many racun I would say. When we inhale, it is equivalent we eat nicotine, tar, arsenic..etc etc etc…

Dr Dalilah also highlighted that cancerous tidak mengenal umur, bangsa dan jantina. Ok part jantina tu mybe tak. But why statistic shows Chinese races are the high number than others races? Even we Malays are the majority in this country. You know why? Not because of their bad lifestyle but because of the awareness among themselves. They do regularly check-up and concern about their healthy. We Malay are fear to see doctor and fear to get the news if were diagnosed breast cancer or cervical cancer. Until at the chronic stage, then only we will seek remedy from doctors. I personally aware of this critical illness, I once anxious about my pain at my breast and that point of time I’m not married yet. I urged the doc to refer me to specialist coz at least it’s not too late to do the treatment. After the scanning and all that nothing was found such cyst and lump and dr said everything ok and healthy. It just that I’m too stress and anxious.

So come on frens, let’s do checkup regularly. Let’s put awareness in ourselves to prevent it coz there is no early warning until we make a move first.

3 Magic words

3 magic word? What will you think?


Yes it is..I also think ‘I love you’

If you have a partner says it often, especially if you are married couple. These word extremely a magic potion that’s made relationship everlasting. I know there are plenty of technics to stay happy and longer with your partner, but the simplest and easiest way in this world is to say I love you. Do you practice it? I did. Coz now I have a principle to live in positive vibes. Therefore a simple one is to say I love you to my partner. Always. Lifestyle changed from 80s’, 90’s and so on. Because of the technology, our lifestyle changed so do relationship. I don’t want to elaborate more about technology but I believe due to technology, our communication to each other changed. Communication skill with our partner is so important which determine the level of successful of one relationship. One of my communication skills is that by saying I love you. Every time ending up a phone conversation with my hubby, he shall say I love u or vice versa. Every time I ask his assistance I shall say thank you followed by I love u. But being typical Malay, I still ashamed saying it in public. Hehe. See how the situation la, sometime I lower down my voice to reply his love..hehe. I know been 2 years married has no right to evaluate one’s relationship but to me I’ve learn lesson from surrounds me. Sample cases; after having 1 kid, a loving couple changed to a moody couple. Where does it wrong?
To me, no matter how you and your partner collide, your love to your partner will not fade more over it will strengthen up your relationship if you practice a correct communication. If any one of you disagrees with me, plz apologize me and share with me. Let’s do research on this along our life journey. I’ve made my routine to say I love u to my husband and promise that shall continuously say it till we enter into grandpa and grandma’s world.
If you have a kid, says it often too, coz in this millennium era, the challenges to raise a kid is thrice burden compare to 50 years back. Do you notice our granny’s era; the average of having number of kids was like 5 to 7. Now raising 2 kids is like a big time headache. Well to reduce the headache is to say I love you to the kids. By saying I love you; I think we manage to control their hyper activeness plus they are able to follow our order / instruction. I know I don’t have any kids yet but I practice this to my niece and nephew. My niece is 6 years old and she such a sweetie girly type gal and easily follows my order. I used to baby sit her since she was 5 old months when her mother sometimes off to work for night shift. I started saying I love you to her since she was 4-5 years old. I can feel the effectiveness of the 3 magic words as she is now capable to know what is good, what is wrong and what is to avoid. She’s such a good girl. Unlike my nephew, he stays with pengasuh belakang rumah my mom since he was 1 year old if not mistaken due to my sis’s maid went back to her country for good. So I’m not sure how the baby sitter taking care of him but when I say ‘I love you’ to him, he seems like no response or refuse to respond. But I won’t give up saying I love u as I believe this 3 magic word can shape a good personality to my nephew. I want to practice this in my family. I admit my parents didn’t do this to me so end up me being introvert. So let me be the turning point to start doing this with my hubby, my niece and my nephew

Have you heard songs by Celine Dion title ‘I love you’? I like it much!
Jiwang kan saya..sometimes la..sometime I can be hardcore too =)

Wall deco

Hi guys, can you do me a favor by helping me to choose which one is the fancy one? Its gonna be my first ever wall deco coz my wall  is just a plain white. Boring!!

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Lovely Wednesday : Hubby and wifey day

A normal working day as usual. When I reached home, first thing first I did was prepare the dinner. About 7 oclock  I started prepare the ingrediants. The menu is 'Nasik Goreng'  or 'nasik goreng hujan lebat' sempena masak dalam keadaan hujan lebat. I tell you my nasik goreng taste so goood..Serious..hehe Even mr husband also like it so much. 'sedapnya' sedapnya'... Ok now I dah master in cooking nasik goreng. Am done with the cooking around 7.45pm. Then I get my shower followed by solat magrib.

Then dinner at 8.10pm...
Now I feel like special sikit, coz I cooked, then we ate together..(note : I rarely cook during working days) We really enjoyed nasik goreng hujan lebat. Both tambah.But then there were leftover and we decided to kept in refrigerator and reheat at the next morning. Selesai dinner, I tot I want to solat Isyak awal sikit. Lepas amik wuduk, suddenly hubby asked nak sembahyang dulu ke or nak sembahyang sama2? Of coz I want to solat2 sama2....Then I tunggu dia amik sembahyang, we solat together...This is rarely happened, but atleast we practised solat berjemaah. I think maybe this time masuk 2 kali kot solat jemaah sama2 in our new house.
Feeling calm, soothing, relax and happy wife. After that, I had manicure and pedicure session with mr husband. Gosh, what a nice day I had. I just huluq je kaki then mr husband potong kuku kakiku yg panjang ni. Finished with toenails, huluq pulak fingernails.

There goes my lovely Wednesday nite. Malam ni tak masak. coz we'll be at Mil house and shall overnight there.

Washed eggs

Everytime I came back from tesco, this is what I do, wash the eggs before I store it. My mom always told me that to wash it first before use it into cooking or baking. Am totally agree to wash it first as I aware they were sometimes ada chic's poo poo. The interesting about my mom is that she don't eat roti john and murtabak frm pasar mlm becoz she really doubt and skeptical whether the eggs been used basuh or tidak. There goes my awesome mom and mil. And of coz am gonna inherit tht awesomeness yo. *but still i eat roti john n murtabak**

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Positive Vibes

This quote really inspired me to be in a good manner at all times


Lately;

Problems arise to some people surrounding me and close with me. I've learnt something that


To be thankful of what you have. Always thankful to Allah and stop complaining


To be positive at all time

To appreciate and love to your family and partner

To avoid judging people and jump into conclusion

To stay happy and leave those negative people behind

To ignore people who talk bad.

To do good deed, worship and seek blessedness from Allah while still alive

 

 

Rumahku + paranomal + jin + guli

Pernahkah anda mengalami kisah paranormal di rumah anda? Hehe feeling2 macam Ekspose mistik pulak
I like to share kisah I which is my experience is that ada bunyi guli jatuh di atas tangga rumah kami and now bunyi tu kejap ade kejap takde. Before we officially stay at our house, mmg ada buat majlis doa selamat naik rumah. On that nite kami buat solat magrib berjemaah, then solat sunat …..(ohmy kantoi I tak ingat solat sunat ape) and then followed by bacaan yassin , then solat Isyak berjemaah.Semuanya itu diketuai dan diimamkan oleh pakcik sedara sebelah husband. Lepas buat semua tuh, keesokkan nya…seriously rumah tu,I can feel different. Different tu in terms of very warm, very lively and not like sebelum tu mcm suram and seram hehe.



Tanggal 2 hb July 2012, kami mendiami rumah tu secara official nya. So far ok takde ape ape yg meragukan mcm bunyi itu ke ini ke, ade lembaga ke, no no sume tu takde…
Until one day ade bunyi guli jatuh. Bunyi tu seakan2 orang sebelah yang main. Nape I ckp org sebelah, sbbnya confirm bukan I yang main kan, jadi I ckp org sebelah lah yang main.hehe
Bunyi tu makin lama makin kerap. Mmg I tak ambik pusing pun bunyi tu walau I ade pernah terbaca yang bunyi guli jatuh tu one of the sign gangguan jin.
Bunyi guli jatuh tu happened during nite time. Rase nye siang takde lak bunyi tu. And kebiasaan mlm tu pulak, sekitar jam 9-11…tapi pukul 12 or 1 ke ats bunyi tu takde. Bila I dgn husband tgk tv , kadang2 bunyi tu dtg, so bile toleh belakang kat tangga, mmg takde ape2. Bile I ckp dgn husband, dia kata bunyi tu dtg dr rumah sebelah, anak org sebelah main guli…ok fine. I pun tak amik kisah. Kadang2 bile I sorang2 , bunyi tu dtg..and I tak amik port. Kami tinggal berdua je, kalu husband takde mmg I tinggal sorang.
Kerunsingan I melanda start minggu lepas. Hari selasa , malam sedang tonton cerita slot Lestari and SaifulNita. Time tu dia bunyi agak kuat and banyak..Bunyi dia mcm u baling guli tu kat atas dan biarkan..so mcm ade rhythm kan…haa..Terasa mcm nk tanye jer jiran sebelah ada mian guli tak.Tp time tu I ok jer…bile nak masuk tido, ntah kenapa gatal tangan google kat my fon ni, type ‘bunyi guli jatuh’…hambik…rupenya ada byk kisah guli jatuh tengah malam…ada pulak tulis, Tanda-tanda gangguan jin dalam rumah : bunyi guli jatuh! Adeh….menyesal plak pegi google benda tu..

Now I rase takut nak duduk sorang2…oh ya Pada hari Rabu esok tu, I balik dr keje and sampai depan rumah sama dengan jiran sebelah. So amik kesempatan Tanya kakak tu, ‘Kak anak akak ada main guli ke mlm2? Jawapan kakak tu ‘ takde la, anak akak tak main guli’ kenapa ade dengar bunyi ke kat atas ? jawapanku: bukan kat atas, tapi kat tangga…tangga tu pulak dekat tempat selekoh tu so disitu ruang nya agak besar..di situ la bunyinya, dan kalu ikutkan rumah sebelah adalah tempat Tv diorang, So mmg bukan tempat main.Kakak tu balas: ‘eh seram nya,’ Now I terbayang ada anak jin kot main tangga umah aku tu..haish….lepas tu I pun masuk rumah, bukak sume lampu, sbb hari pun dah nk malam. Pastu bukak Tv channel 106, astro oasis.hihi..kebetulan azan magrib and at the same time I pasang surah yassin dlm hp I ni., Tiba tiba bunyi guli tu datang, 2 kali…waduh..time ni la dia nk main2.Ke dia memberontak atau panas? Husband takde kat rumah time tu. So I trus pakai tudung cabut pegi rumah mak. Bila sampai rumah mak baru msg husband update lokasi i. Bile di rumah mak, ape lagi story la dekat mak.


 
Kat kawasan tangga ni la dia dok berbunyi..


Tapi kan ade jugak info yang ckp bunyi guli tu sebenarnya adalah kesan resonan dlm dinding disebabkan struktur bangunan. Hopefully itu adalah jawapan kepada bunyi tersebut.


Tapi, Ntahla..i rase lebih tenang kira nye I panggil ustaz kan….Kalu bole I tak nak ada jin duduk serumah dengan i. Mungkin rumah kami masih kosong and ade 2 bilik masih tak occupied, jadi benda2 halus ni suke la kot. I admit dlm bulan puasa I baca al quran tapi abes je ramadhan , I stop..so not good kan..patutnye I continuously baca al quran supaya benda2 halus ni tak dtg…

Sabtu and ahad lepas husband outstation ke negeri pantai timur and akan balik esok. Start hari jumaat bermlm di rumah mentua. Malam ni? Tak tau lagi, dah 3 mlm rumah tu tiada penghuni, Tak baik tinggalkan rumah lama2 kan. Ahad, semlm dlm jam 10 tu balik singgah rumah, basuh baju. Selepas tekan button mesin basuh ON, I siap2 mandi sume, dan gerak balik ke rumah mentua semula. Baju dlm mesin tinggal mcm tu aje hihi. Tak bersidai pun. Rase nye tgahri ni nk balik sidai baju. Nanti kepam bau baju kalu biar begitu shj.

If I have a maid

1. I want her from Siam or Cambodia.
2. I will make a time table and job description for her
3. To include massage in her job description. (hehehe)
4. Sunday is her off day
5. She can make an extra money by cleaning my parents house or who ever needed one day maid service.
6. I will do appraisal to assess her performance and reward her bonus if she achieved the KPI (seriously)
See I'm a good employer if I were to hire a maid. Actually I believe a maid will be diligently doing the house chores or taking care the baby if the employer provide a good facilities, clear instruction and respect their needs and emotion. To me, this is what I want from my employer, as a result, u enjoy with your work, no stress and loyal to the company. I think diorang pun begitu. I want my maid also being loyal to me. So I will treat them nicely but then I must remember there's always boundary between majikan and pembantu rumah.
Why I don't prefer maid from I***N?
Majority are ok. but monority is not ok.
Last 2 weeks,I brought my nephew to the playground nearby my house. While accompany and watched him play, there were a group of i***n maid having their gossiping time. Seriously I feel so sakit hati the way diorang becerita.Ntah apa la yang mereka tak puas hati. Thats the thing I don't prefer Indon to be my future maid.Petang2 bwk my kid to playground then buat mesyuarat jiran tetangga sesama golongan diorang. Then mengumpat majikan dia sendiri.So talam dua muka. Some cases, dari sini lah they will start create problem. masing2 compare gaji masing2 then yg di bayar rendah akan mintak naik gaji n will mogok tak nak makan kalu tak naik gaji.Then ckp majikan abuse..(Emo plak pepagi ni)I So my option is , kalu ada rezeki,I want maid from Siam or Cambodia. They are less comunity among them and none I heard problem.



Tp I tahu now nak dapatkan orang gaji sangatlah susah. Now maid punya rate RM700 dah. Ntah I n husband can afford or not later. I heard that Cambodia punya King dah tak nak issue permit untuk bekerja di Malaysia as a maid. Payah dah sekarang. Haish....

2 years married to a lovely husband

Its our annivessary today! yayy...

10.10.10.12

First and foremost we are so damn happy and deeply loving each other ever since we moved to our own nest. Now I realize, we actually need our own privacy. Im not complaining that living with parents or in laws is not adviseble or awful things or disaster or whatsoever you may call. My in-laws were sooo nice and kind to me. It just that we hardly shown our love in front of the family coz both of us are shy.We intimate , we cuddling, we touch, we kiss,we hugging only in our room..We don't have freedom to do it publicly in the house. Plus our previous nature of work also made us less intimate. Now living in our own, we had so much quantity and quality time. I would say tht we are in the comfirt zone rite now...We are soo in love more n more n more..
Happy second annivesarry husband. I don't know what challenges or obstacles will come to us but what I know, I'll embrace your love, hugs and kisses.... .I care less about what will happen later but what I know I'll cherish it as long as I can.We are too happy rite now even we are ok tht no celebration for our 2nd annivessary. I think I get a concept what is happiness. To me our happiness is when we cook together, we eat together , do laundry together, watching Tv together,solat together, shower together(hihi) and garderning together. Its priceless ya know. Thank you Allah for showering us bless and happiness to my tiny family. To husband, thank you for being a responsible and caring husband.I appreciate it much.

lotsa lurve...
Wife

Weekend Activities

A quick update :

6/10/2012, Saturday

One of my uni mate’s baby shower event happened on last Saturday. Couldn’t make it as
it was held at Ipoh and at the same time I have to attend cousin’s wedding at Putrajaya. Best wishes to my friend and hopefully baby selamat dikeluarkan secara normal dan sihat hendaknya.I feel bad actually for not being there celebrate together with BFFs. To ease the situation, I ordered diapers cake for her =). Only 1 tier d.c I can afford. (There’s a misunderstanding, I tot I ordered 2 tier, rupenye 1 tier)

     

6/10 & 7/10 Saturday Sunday

 Cousin’s wedding at Putrajaya and the akad nikah ceremony done at the bride’s residence at Kota Warisan. We actually are working at the same place under one roof but different building lah.Since I’m a new comer so he is a senior to me even though he is younger than me. As I remembered we bumped twice at the café, but I just smile without saying anything. Congratulation to bride and the groom. The bride is so beautiful, she smiled at all times precisely she looks stunning. I’m so fond of her dress.

Dalam banyak2 hantaran, the cupcake arrangement paling i suka. simple yet classy!

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First time jumpe kereta plat no start dgn G

I terjumpe kerete yg jarang2 ada atas jalan. Jenama kerete ni, Fernando Alonso pakai tau kat trek F1. Bile google nak tahu harga kereta ni, mak ai RM2++K uol...2 pintu jer..tapi harga fuiyo...Bile tengok plat , lagi la akward. GIM?? negeri mane tu? Bile tanye hubby..jawapan dia :

Gugusan Gagasan 1 Malaysia

 

update: Fernando Alonso tukar ke Ferrari dah skang. Tu dulu yang pakai Renault.

Water Purifier : Coway Satisfy your basic needs

Our house really need clean drinking water. At the moment we don't have such water filter. But I think every house should have one water filter. I don't trust much the level of cleanliness of water that being supplied from the state. (Sometimes air dia keroh kaler kuning. Bile basuh baju kaler kuning habes.What the heck kan. ) Since we don't have one, husband and I alternately get the R.O water from the machine yg sometimes available dekat kedai2 runcit. Okla cheap rather that buy a new bottle of water everytime nak drink kan. At first I can still tahan, but now kind of tiring every 2 days we have to top up back our clean drinking water. Normally 3 bottles of 5 litres can last for 2 days only. Was thinking to get one water filter for our house. There are plenty of brands water filter out there but to follow my desire, I love COWAY..hehehe seiring dengan tag line dia. But why Coway..??

OK. My previous company used to have COWAY water dispenser at the pantry. Very convenient I tell you. Hot ,cold and room temperature water available at anytime. And the best is, every 2 month service / maintenance to the water dispenser done by Coway people and its free of charge. Also if there were any faulty or problem to that appliance, they will fix it and F.O.C as well. From there I started think wow..how cool if I get one this at home. But for that model it ideal for workplace or big family. Coz it has large capacity of water tank. But for my situation, I think I need a petite one that suit with my small family.




The model  I interested most is Petit CHP - 06D. For this model, the design quite stylish and modern. (One of the reason I like it )And if happened tht I bought this, I have to pay RM110 per month up to 5 year service. After 5 years, the appliance will be mine, Just in case in 3rd year I want to stop the service, yes I may do so and the water purifier will be returned to Coway. This is for rental basis and if you want to own it you have to pay RM3400 and free 1 year service.

[Iklan jap, I can't see button to upload the picture for me to show you the model coz i'm writing this at the office. hehe..for 2 piccas above I upload using blogdroid then I edit this entry in the office and pretending like a busy one. Internet kat office not all can acces , even the button to upload pic also blocked. Dunno why, im not master in security]

There is pro and con between 'buy' and 'rental' . My previous company opt to 'rental' the water purifier or water filter or some may call water despenser is because of free 5 years service. Every 2 months they will come and service the appliance and free product check-up & filter changing services periodically. Senang ckp, byk free if you choose for rental scheme. Best kan. Same like mcm kita pakai kereta, air cond ke, fotocopy ke, every machine kene service la kalau nk barang baik kan...water filter kalau mahu tahan lama, kene service jugak yg penting service tu kalau free lagi bagus. Not like some product, bile call suruh datang service, kene bayo... Tapi kalu kita pilih untuk beli terus, service tu hanye untuk 1 tahun je free tapi harga satu unit jadi murah la. So there's pro and con di situ. Tepuk dada tanya selera lah. Akhir kata, I nak rent.hehehe

Celoteh je lebih , tapi ntah bila I nak call Coway and sign up for rental scheme.

Kitchen Cabinet & Rumah Baru

Tajuk entri, haha tak boleh blah rasanya..well, ini adalah salah satu strategi nak promote belog sebenarnya...I noticed some blog ada letak my link. Thank you for that. Then kalau letak tajuk killer mcm ni insyaAllah ada org baca kot...tul tak?
To me when I blogwalking, I will click tajuk entry yang attractive yg bole menarik perhatian I. Kalu tajuk dia mcm 'biasa' je, takde lah  I nak click. Lagi pun kat office time tade keje je baru bole I blogwalk. Dalam satu hari lebih kurang 3-4  blog je yg sempat I baca.

So ceritanya, nak cerita yg baru baru ni I went to my brother's house. Tp belum duduk lagi coz rumah dia belum renovate. Its a new project by Glomac. When they launch this project, harga untuk sebuah rumah....omang hai...maybe perlu 2,3,or 4 joint account kalu nk ensure your hs loan approved..mahal nya melampau2...bile tgk design dia....hmmm I bagi 2 bintang je out of five. So my mom bantu abg I dr segi who to hire the contractor. Selang beberapa buah rumah, ada rumah yg baru lepas renovated. Mom berkenan dgn design rumah dia. So mom pilih contractor tu untuk reno rumah abg nanti. My mom ajak I pergi tengok rumah yg dah siap tuh...So I pergilah...comment I, ok lah...nice ... tak salah pilihan my mom tu.

Luas nya jalan dia...nowadays rumah2 sekarng jln dia sempit, kalu kiri kanan kereta park, sure jalan sempit dah. Yang ni, kiri kanan park, jalan still lapang and luas.

This is one of the pattern of the house. Tapi yang ni bukan my brother punya house, its opposite.
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And ni rumah yang dah siap renovate. I suke bar counter dia...Sangat. Ingat nk baiki balik my bar counter tu. nk gune material 3D mcm atas ni...Smartkan..Ok bar stool atas ni mcm common, yg berkenan di hati sekarang bar stool yg kat McD...hehehe



Ada taman permainan. Dekat dengan rumah abg. kalu anak2 buah datang, tak ralat rase nya kalu lepaskan mereka ke situ. Anyway, this area is gated and guarded, only car with sticker can enter the taman.

Basketball court.

The best part, swimming pool. Kalu i  yg dewasa ni tak lah excited mane, tapi kita akan happy kalu ank2 or anak2 buah dpt mandi swimming pool kan. Normally, swimmming pool ada kat kondo-kondo kan...tp yang landed houses mcm abg i punye ni pun ada facilities swimming pool, dewan, playground and surau. (tapak surau je baru ada) kot2 nanti i ade anak, bole la buat befday party kat sini..huhu berangan sebentar.

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My cutie pie

This little girl is really really melting my heart even now.. Eh aunty forgot to ask your name lah gal. She came to my mom open house over the weekend with my maklong.(she is my maklong niece) Her parent didnt show up mybe shy coz not so close with my family. At first shy shy cat lah....somehow i managed tame her by offering to be my model. So i snap her pic and after tht she take a look at her pic then. She get excited i guess by looking at her cutiest faces. Surprisingly she requested more snapping her pic..lol I foresee that she has a talent to be a model.hehe

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The dusun : a serene place to ease your 'jiwa kacau'

It was last year my girl frens and I been here for 1 nite stay. Located at Seremban,  I guess not far from KL.
Not inner in the city but its located within org asli settlement area. I recommend you hv a visit once here for a 1 nite stay, thats enough for a mini vacation with your family or frens or husband. This place is so quite and serene. You will not see any kedai started from the main road to this place.
I will not suggest you to drive here by Kancil or Viva or vehicle under 1000 cc as you hv to go thru some road yg berbatu batu kecil..And you will also need climb the hill like 140degree up to the hill. (kalu gune 4wheeldrive lg bagus) I think for more info you can google The Dusun, more pics available in their website.

We stayed at Tembusu House where it can fit 4 people at one time. The Tembusu house rate is RM400 per nite. So we divided into 4 , RM100 per head plus RM50 for foods. Fyi, this place only provide breakfast meal according how many person stayed in the house. For dinner or tea break, you will need to prepare by yourself. Nasib baik, we all ada sorang chef. So masak2 ni serahkan pada beliau. Foods prepared by her: marinated chicken, udang , sosej, potatoes, mashed potatoes for BBQ then cucur udang, sos bagai, goreng sosej for tea time. Air? air kosong je. Itu yg lagi sedap.hehe



An infinity pool


View from the edge of the pool


A place for tea time and BBQ. They provide the BBQ pit for your convenient. From the Tembusu house to the pool, you hv to walk like 5 minutes distance. We dont do our BBQ here, we just had our's at our house. Yup every house ada BBQ pit. No worries.


Looks like infinity kan, tapi sebenarnye ada tangga turun bawah tu ha..Tak perlu ada raya gayat.

Below: Of course ada pokok durian yg banyak. You can eat what eva  fruits yg ada disitu and you can eat as much as you can.

PS : Its a private property owned by mat salleh. Do expect dogs will mingle around for their security purposes.