Friday, 30 November 2012

H1N1 datang lagi!

8.52am  : Oh my, our office jst received a phone call informing that one of our colleague has infected H1N1 virus. And it's confirmed. A bit chaos in the office now, I can heard my boss nearby me making a phone call to various parties to alert about this.

Syukur that I did not directly contact with her, so chances for me getting infected is 0.01%.

9.47am : Staff who sitting in front of her also confirmed infected H1N1

Monday, 19 November 2012

Kacang Cerdik

Baru baru  ni I makan kacang cerdik yang dibelikan oleh ibu saudara yg pulang dari Mekah mengerjakan Haji.

Tapi nyaaaaaaa....kacang cerdik tu kurang menarik. Tak lemak mungkin.

Untuk mengubat hati yang kempunan nak makan kacang cerdik, I beli dekat office ni. Ade orang jual kat office ni. Murah! sekilo RM 33, Kulit nya putih bersih,senang dibuka, isinya lemak dan rangup.

So I makan sampai lebam. Oh ya, masih ada yang tak tau kacang cerdik tu kacang ape,

Kacang cerdik adalah kacang pistachio jugeeee =)

Kalau nak, bagitau je lah..sharing is caring daaaa

Wednesday, 14 November 2012

Am a green goer

It's been rainy days these days.....don't blame it as Allah has plan on us.

See, Allah gave me a beautiful and a scented flower.

Below is the only flowering plants we had at the backyard.

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Monday, 12 November 2012

A sad story

Last Friday, I joined women health talk on breast and cervical cancer at my work place. Fyi, I’m aware much that this is a critical disease to women in Malaysia and that’s why attended this health talk. Plus I’m a married woman and there’s a risk I might get this illness. During the talk given by Dr Dalilah Kamaruddin from the National cancer Society Malaysia, she shared one true story of her patient to us. This patient was diagnosed with breast cancer at the aged of 25.She has 2 boys, eldest 5 years and youngest 5 months. (Disclaimer: mybe about the age not correctly accurate coz Doc also pun mcm ingt2 lupe, and that time I lupe nk take note) She managed survived at 3 times. (Take out-kimo, takeout-kimo and all that) The worst thing is that her mil did not fully understand about breast cancer. Her mil assumed that breast cancer is a contagious disease. What the mil done was tht she asked the kids do not kiss their mom and during preparing the foods, the mil put aside her foods (patient) separately from the family’s food. Takut berjangkit kononnya. Now the evil part, the mil asked the husband to divorce her. ‘Takde faedah bela biawak hidup ni’, begitulah perumpamaan evil kan..

But the good thing, the husband very very very positive….He take cares and treats of his wife so nicely. When the wife get bald, he and the kids balded their head to show their support to his wife. So sweet kan. Even the husband cooked for his wife. (I realized my tears welling, suddenly I was imagine can my husband be like that too? can he be supportive if I get breast cancer? Can he actually be by my side? Those questions make my tears dropped)

One day, the Doc came to her house make a visit. Coincidently her husband was cooking preparing the lunch. The doc noticed her husband cooking while smoking. As a conclusion, the husband quite a heavy smoker due to stress of life. So after a week, the dr gets news that she passed away. The sad story not ends here. Within the same year, the husband also passed away due to lung cancer. Kesian kan anak2 dia..Doc Dalilah pass a message to us that when passive smoker who inhale the smokes from active smoker might die fast. So in that case, the smokes in the house also contributed of her loss despite ajal maut jodoh sudah tertulis. My husband is a smoker too. I firmly ask him don’t ever smoke in front of me, and if wants to smoke, don’t let the smokes gets inside the house. Fyi, the smokes itself contained many many racun I would say. When we inhale, it is equivalent we eat nicotine, tar, arsenic..etc etc etc…

Dr Dalilah also highlighted that cancerous tidak mengenal umur, bangsa dan jantina. Ok part jantina tu mybe tak. But why statistic shows Chinese races are the high number than others races? Even we Malays are the majority in this country. You know why? Not because of their bad lifestyle but because of the awareness among themselves. They do regularly check-up and concern about their healthy. We Malay are fear to see doctor and fear to get the news if were diagnosed breast cancer or cervical cancer. Until at the chronic stage, then only we will seek remedy from doctors. I personally aware of this critical illness, I once anxious about my pain at my breast and that point of time I’m not married yet. I urged the doc to refer me to specialist coz at least it’s not too late to do the treatment. After the scanning and all that nothing was found such cyst and lump and dr said everything ok and healthy. It just that I’m too stress and anxious.

So come on frens, let’s do checkup regularly. Let’s put awareness in ourselves to prevent it coz there is no early warning until we make a move first.

3 Magic words

3 magic word? What will you think?

Yes it is..I also think ‘I love you’

If you have a partner says it often, especially if you are married couple. These word extremely a magic potion that’s made relationship everlasting. I know there are plenty of technics to stay happy and longer with your partner, but the simplest and easiest way in this world is to say I love you. Do you practice it? I did. Coz now I have a principle to live in positive vibes. Therefore a simple one is to say I love you to my partner. Always. Lifestyle changed from 80s’, 90’s and so on. Because of the technology, our lifestyle changed so do relationship. I don’t want to elaborate more about technology but I believe due to technology, our communication to each other changed. Communication skill with our partner is so important which determine the level of successful of one relationship. One of my communication skills is that by saying I love you. Every time ending up a phone conversation with my hubby, he shall say I love u or vice versa. Every time I ask his assistance I shall say thank you followed by I love u. But being typical Malay, I still ashamed saying it in public. Hehe. See how the situation la, sometime I lower down my voice to reply his love..hehe. I know been 2 years married has no right to evaluate one’s relationship but to me I’ve learn lesson from surrounds me. Sample cases; after having 1 kid, a loving couple changed to a moody couple. Where does it wrong?
To me, no matter how you and your partner collide, your love to your partner will not fade more over it will strengthen up your relationship if you practice a correct communication. If any one of you disagrees with me, plz apologize me and share with me. Let’s do research on this along our life journey. I’ve made my routine to say I love u to my husband and promise that shall continuously say it till we enter into grandpa and grandma’s world.
If you have a kid, says it often too, coz in this millennium era, the challenges to raise a kid is thrice burden compare to 50 years back. Do you notice our granny’s era; the average of having number of kids was like 5 to 7. Now raising 2 kids is like a big time headache. Well to reduce the headache is to say I love you to the kids. By saying I love you; I think we manage to control their hyper activeness plus they are able to follow our order / instruction. I know I don’t have any kids yet but I practice this to my niece and nephew. My niece is 6 years old and she such a sweetie girly type gal and easily follows my order. I used to baby sit her since she was 5 old months when her mother sometimes off to work for night shift. I started saying I love you to her since she was 4-5 years old. I can feel the effectiveness of the 3 magic words as she is now capable to know what is good, what is wrong and what is to avoid. She’s such a good girl. Unlike my nephew, he stays with pengasuh belakang rumah my mom since he was 1 year old if not mistaken due to my sis’s maid went back to her country for good. So I’m not sure how the baby sitter taking care of him but when I say ‘I love you’ to him, he seems like no response or refuse to respond. But I won’t give up saying I love u as I believe this 3 magic word can shape a good personality to my nephew. I want to practice this in my family. I admit my parents didn’t do this to me so end up me being introvert. So let me be the turning point to start doing this with my hubby, my niece and my nephew

Have you heard songs by Celine Dion title ‘I love you’? I like it much!
Jiwang kan saya..sometimes la..sometime I can be hardcore too =)

Monday, 5 November 2012

Wall deco

Hi guys, can you do me a favor by helping me to choose which one is the fancy one? Its gonna be my first ever wall deco coz my wall  is just a plain white. Boring!!










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Thursday, 1 November 2012

Lovely Wednesday : Hubby and wifey day

A normal working day as usual. When I reached home, first thing first I did was prepare the dinner. About 7 oclock  I started prepare the ingrediants. The menu is 'Nasik Goreng'  or 'nasik goreng hujan lebat' sempena masak dalam keadaan hujan lebat. I tell you my nasik goreng taste so goood..Serious..hehe Even mr husband also like it so much. 'sedapnya' sedapnya'... Ok now I dah master in cooking nasik goreng. Am done with the cooking around 7.45pm. Then I get my shower followed by solat magrib.

Then dinner at 8.10pm...
Now I feel like special sikit, coz I cooked, then we ate together..(note : I rarely cook during working days) We really enjoyed nasik goreng hujan lebat. Both tambah.But then there were leftover and we decided to kept in refrigerator and reheat at the next morning. Selesai dinner, I tot I want to solat Isyak awal sikit. Lepas amik wuduk, suddenly hubby asked nak sembahyang dulu ke or nak sembahyang sama2? Of coz I want to solat2 sama2....Then I tunggu dia amik sembahyang, we solat together...This is rarely happened, but atleast we practised solat berjemaah. I think maybe this time masuk 2 kali kot solat jemaah sama2 in our new house.
Feeling calm, soothing, relax and happy wife. After that, I had manicure and pedicure session with mr husband. Gosh, what a nice day I had. I just huluq je kaki then mr husband potong kuku kakiku yg panjang ni. Finished with toenails, huluq pulak fingernails.

There goes my lovely Wednesday nite. Malam ni tak masak. coz we'll be at Mil house and shall overnight there.